A year and a half ago I did something that would change my life forever, for the better.

It wasn’t something I had planned, it just sort of happened.

I was enjoying a little Facebook scroll when I came across a friend’s post and a picture that stole my heart.

Her name was Duchess; a scruffy little mutt from the Animal Society.  She was found in bad shape and currently living with a foster mom to nurse her back to good health.   The caption spoke of how special she was but the picture really said it all.

Something sparked within me that evening.  I had to meet her.

If you listen closely, the universe will speak to you.  My ears are always open and I relish in its subtle sounds.  When it tells you something feels right, go with it.

And I did.

I wasn’t looking for a dog.  She found me.

Not one day later did I adopt ‘Duchess’.  And on that very day, I changed that god awful name.  No way, no how, was that sticking.

Roux Barb.   Nailed it.  Damn, I’m good.

This sweet pup came into my life so quickly and it all fell into place.  You adjust when there is no other option.

Do you have a pet?  Did you adopt?  Then you can understand just how rewarding having an animal can be especially taking in one that’s been waiting at a shelter for a forever home.

I rescued her.  And that gave me great satisfaction.

Now, I’m not recommending we all go out and take in every animal without a home.  Cat ladies are weird.  But get yourself a pet and do it via adoption.  These acts of kindness are not only saving a life but the unconditional love you get in return is quite fulfilling.  Roux fucking loves me.

Getting a rescue is also a great way to go as you’ll save money and you won’t be supporting puppy mills or pet stores.  There are so many animals out there looking for a home.  Adopting should really be the only option.

Why not consider those that are likely not going to have any quality of life otherwise. These are some grateful creatures.

Now this dog is the happiest thing I’ve ever seen.   It’s contagious.   She jumps so high when she’s trying to say hello and drags her belly across the floor when she gets excited.

All she wants is a little attention.  She’ll look at you with her big doe eyes and perma-grin and knows she’s got you hooked.  It’s sofa king cute.

She greets me at the door and talks to me when I come home.  No really.  She speaks, not barks, but tells me about her day and asks about mine.  It’s nice.  We have a great rapport.

Roux’s presence in my life has changed me.  I’ve since developed more tolerance, compassion, patience, and become more accountable.   Don’t kill the dog.

I’m a better person with Roux in my life.

I think I rescued her, but she…rescued me.

Man, I love that little doggie.

“Rescue me
Oh take me in your arms
Rescue me
I want your tender charms
‘Coz I’m lonely and I’m blue
I need you and your love too”

-Aretha Franklin

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